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Stop hoping for a completion of anything in life
If you’re not doing it right now, realize that you’re probably never going to do it.
Don’t get lost in tasks and duties
Pursue your purpose, maximize your time spent doing that.
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Always refresh the transcendental element of your life through regular meditation and retreat.
A man should never get lost in the details of his life and forget that, ultimately and in truth, life amounts to nothing other than what is the deepest truth of this present moment.
Be willing to change everything in your life
Cultivate yourself to a point that no matter what happens, no matter what kind of change you go through, it doesn’t matter: you’re going to be able to figure it out.
Develop yourself. Be immune to change.
Life as if your father were dead
A man must love his father and yet be free of his father’s expectations and criticisms.
There’s no one in the world who knows what you need to do better than you do. Respect everyone, take everyone’s opinion and better yourself based on them, but ultimately, think and reason with your own head.
If you don’t know your purpose, discover it now
Without a conscious life-purpose, a man is totally lost.
If you had all the money and all the time in the world, what would you do?
Your purpose should come before your relationship.
Never change your mind just to please a woman
If a woman suggests something that changes a man’s perspective, then he should make a new decision based on his new perspective. But he should never betray his own deepest knowledge and intuition in order to please his woman or “go along” with her. Both she and he will be weakened by such an action. They will grow to resent each other, and the crust of accumulated inauthenticity will burden their love, as well as their capacity for free action.
Lean just before your edge
Don’t be too lazy, happily stagnating in the zone of security and comfort. But don’t push yourself far beyond your edge, stressing yourself unnecessarily either. Lean just beyond your edge, your capacities, your fears.
Don’t use your family as an excuse
A man should, of course, be a full participant in caring for children and the household. But if he gives up his deepest purpose to do so, ultimately, everyone suffers.
Don’t force the feminine to make decisions
Take decisions and hold accountable for them.
What she wants is not what she says
Listen to intentions, not words.
Sometimes a woman will make a request of her man in plain english, not to get him to do something, but to see if he is so weak that he will do it. She is testing his capacity to do what is right, not what she’s asking for.
A man must remember that a woman’s trust is engendered not by him fulfilling her requests, but by him magnifying love, consciousness, and success in their lives, in spite of her requests.
She doesn’t really want to be no.1
A woman really wants her man to be totally dedicated to his highest purpose — and also to love her fully. Although she would never admit it, she wants to feel that her man would be willing to sacrifice their relationship for the sake of his highest purpose.
She wants to relax in the demonstration of your direction
Financially, Sexually, Emotionally, and Spiritually.